toa (warrior)
for Jonique
Without her I am nothing.
She showed me life by being a great example of many amazing things.
She defied all odds coming from neglect and unsafety in her childhood.
And when she met me, she became a victim of all types of abuse.
I tried to control her but failed miserably.
She changed all of that by empowering, educating and loving herself.
She realised her true value and vowed to never become a victim again.
Putting herself and her kids first before anyone or anything.
She taught me to be a responsible man,
she showed me how to prioritise what is important and how to become a better person.
She is a hard worker. She has overcome so many obstacles in her life and takes no crap from anyone.
She has fearlessly fought for her loved one Jamie, to bring justice for those who have gone missing without a trace.
She continues this journey. She protects who she loves.
She empowers indigenous communities. She empowers other women to be great and to embrace their inner and outer Beauty.
She is loving and always focused on progress. She is TOA!
- Peleti, 39, Flaxmere, New Zealand.